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Realistic Expectations & Real-Life Sex

Reposted from May 2015 Whilst a lot of what I write about here is aimed at enhancing people’s sex lives, it is also important to remember that having a good sex life does not have anything to do with getting it perfect. Unfortunately, in our media saturated world, many people end up comparing their sex […]

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Hand-Brake Off, Gas Pedal Down

Reposted from September 28, 2016 In Emily Nagosky’s book Come as You Are, she comprehensively explains a really useful theory in sexuality research – The Dual Control Model of sexual response. Complicated name, but an incredibly user-friendly model. This is my summary of the most critical points in the theory, and how they might apply to our sex […]